Rise and Fall are very common in everybody's life. The rise cannot be defined by money or name and fame. The rise is the elevation of the soul which finds its happiness within, feels great with what is available, stops looking at what others have. The fall is surely when the soul falls fully in pray of worldly things, increases greed, to satisfy falls on feet of low-quality people.
This is why sanatana dharma has always defined that, marriage to be done with a great soul. When a lady finds a partner she has to choose one who is having UCCHA neeti/dharma. This would give rise in life. One usually thinks marrying a pandit is like missing everything in life. But, that is what is confusing wrong thoughts. We are evaluating only by money, one who takes to movies, one who takes out for lunch/dinner, one who gives great gifts like iPhone, watch this is what our NEECHA buddhi...
One who struggled so much in choosing a partner based on lots of greed ends up in breakage or being unhappy without being able to tell others as well. But, if you look at your surroundings even laborers' families are happy, producing more kids without having GREED.
Its also important to note that leaning towards sanathana dharma, being adhyatmika, being social are will be a peace of mind (even if they are not earning things for you ).
Overall our life stands on the following fundamentals:
1. You have a pie of 'SERVICE' in your life - this you may use for serving lord, husband, parents or inlaws or it will be used wisely by GOD to make you serve unwanted NEECH people
2. You have a pie of 'GIVING BACK' either you can donate this to UCCHA people else GOD will make you donate to NEECH people who will use it for spoiling society(paying 250/ ticket price to a movie and HERO is anti-national).
3. You have a pie to 'LOVE' someone either you choose Go-matha else GOD will select a DOG for you.
Here we are not saying things are GOOD or BAD we are just telling how things would end up for you based on your UCHA or NEECHA requirements.
Today, we have lots of our girls marrying people who are - Adharmik, low-grade work profiles, even to an extent of laborers. But the same person asked to marry a Madhwa she surely has questions on qualification, salary, grade, house in metro cities, etc....
Marrying someone else than Madhwa is not a bad thing, but choosing someone who is not in UCCHA dharma is going to make you fall down in life for sure....
Choose things wisely. There are problems everywhere and one cannot lead a movie-based life in real life. This is where Indian anti-dharmik movies have played a great role in the downfall of our quality.
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